which one are you?

10 CommentsEvery entity has it's own personas, it's own stereotypes. The gym is one of those places.

Although I may generalize a bit, if you take a look around in your own gym, I'll bet you'll find most of these people are working out around you. And you fit right in to one of the categories.

And if you live in houston, this post does not apply to FIT Gym - as legend has it, FIT accomodates only the young, beautiful yuppies and DINKY's that party regularly. I cannot confirm the rumors, as i refuse to work out at a place where i might see people that I socialize with. I would hate for these people to see me at my worst: no makeup, frizzy hair, and sweat marks in my butt crack and underneath my boobs. It's just bad.


The Old Men

These guys gather here, come rain or sleet, snow or hail, every day, same time, same place. They could be having a heart attack (which I'm sure they all have a few under their belt) and they show up no fail. And God forbid YOU miss a day, because they'll mention it next time you see them. And don't try lying by saying you worked out at last night rather than in the morning, because they'll check with their nighttime counterparts to see if you really did do so. They keep tabs on all the gym-goers... if you're earlier than normal, one of them make a beeline for your treadmill and makes sure you know that you're 10 minutes ahead of schedule. And having headphones stuck in your ears would keep most normal people from trying to carry on a conversation, but that doesn't stop them. I've tried.

But despite working out every day, 365 days a year, their bodies never change. That's because the main source of their ambition comes from keeping a daily schedule, and to socialize. And by socialize I mean talk about the weather and if any of their friends have died in the past 24 hours.

But this is one group of men at the gym you don't have to worry about hitting on you. That funny look they're giving you? That's not checking you out, their adult diaper just needs readjusting.



The Beefy Boys

These are the protein-drinking, steroid-eating, armpit-shaving, vein-popping, muscle tee-wearing, bandana-donning, fake tanners of the gym. You can't miss 'em, because they won't let you. If it seems like they're there all the time, it's because they are. Their workout is actually one, loooooong workout. They do the same number of sets as the rest of us, but they wait about 2 hours in between each set. And during their wait, they walk around with a stone cold face, give eachother high fives, and chug protein shakes.

You're usually safe from getting hit on, as these guys know they could never love a woman as much as they love their bodies, so most of them have given up. But every once in awhile, one of them ventures away from their pack and come over with some cheesy line. But you also know that they love their bodies more than they could ever love a woman, so you undoubtedly will shoot them down. Oh well, better luck next time, sport.

The Barbie Dolls

These are the chicks that come only so they can tell their friends they went to the gym that day. They usually don't sweat, but if they do, it smells like roses and candy. Their hair is put up in a perfect ponytail, of which they hot-rolled the ends of. Their makeup is flawless, and they are wearing a perfectly coordinated workout outfit from Bebe. They workout on the elliptical machine at a slow, steady pace while reading Cosmo. They work their heart rate up enough to act like they're working out hard, but not so much that they can't chat on their cell phone in case their best friend Buffy calls.

Expect to see a high turnover rate on the Barbie Dolls. Pretending like you're working out takes precious time away from shopping.

The Anorexic

This is just sad, so I won't delve into it too much. This is the malnourished girl that gets on the treadmills and runs for THREE HOURS STRAIGHT at the fastest pace and the steepest incline. She doesn't dare lift weights, because muscle weighs more than fat, and that might push her over the 90 lb. mark. And if she's not on the treadmill sweating the 2 oz. of water she has left in her body, she's on the scale in the ladies' locker room, stepping on, then off, on, then off. No, it must be wrong.

Oh, and the canned goods drive that the gym hosts every year is actually for her, but the gym tells everyone it's for the starving kids in Africa.
I'm going to hell now.

The Bachelor

This guy only comes to pick up women. He's tried everything, from bars, to dating services, and he's one rejection shy from hanging out in the produce department. He's so desperate that NO WOMAN IS SAFE, not even The Loner (see below). His lines range from "let me show you how to get better results on that machine" to "didn't I see you in my apartment complex recently?"... although he's usually less smooth on the delivery. You'd almost feel sorry for the guy, but his almost hard pee-pee and over-eagerness snaps you back into reality.

And don't think you're safe once you turn him down. It usually takes several polite, subtle hints and one or two slaps in the face for him to go away. In extreme cases, you may find yourself altering your schedule to avoid The Bachelor. da da da duuuun.

The Loner

This is the guy or girl that tries too hard to slip under the radar, but their attempts at appearing nonchalant come across too hard, and lean towards the bitch-side. They want to get in and get out, with no complications or mishaps. They are on a mission, and will avoid all human contact at any cost. No makeup, bland clothes, quiet demeanor and no eye contact gives them hope they'll blend into the background. If someone is on a machine they want to use, they'll move on, at the expense of their workout. You didn't see anything...

The Gossips

These are the people that have read too many fitness articles suggesting that you should "workout with a friend", and are now located on the bike next to you, as they gab away to whatever poor soul that dragged there that day. Their friend never comes back, so they go through friends, co-workers, family members, neighbors, their mailman... until they've used up every person they've ever come in contact with. And since they're bringing all facets of their life here, plan on hearing about all facets of their life.

"Oh my God, can you believe she wore that skirt to yesterday's meeting?!"
"Well you didn't hear this from me, but I heard that he's got a young girlfriend on the side."
"And I thought to myself, I should have this rash looked at, you just never know what it could be."


It's important to stay calm with coming in contact with a Gossip. Their endless gabbing will tear at every fiber of your patience, will not mesh well with your Britney Spears mixed tape, will find you wanting to resort to violence RIGHT THERE, but you must relax and hope that their buddy system will be all used up very soon. 'Cause if it's not, they're gonna find this chick floating in the hot tub with an ipod shuffle shoved up her...


Okay, so I think I covered most everyone. There's a few that aren't worth going in to, like B.O. Man, Sweats-a-Lot, The Girl That Could Crush You With Her Pinkie, The Gay Boy, or The Too Cheerful Trainer, but you get the idea.

Oh yeah, and I am most definitely The Loner.

Comments

Salacious Samosa

Just wondering, do you not like me posting here?

2/18/2009 11:09:44 AM #

Salacious Samosa

Mary

I'm soooooooo the loner. I love this post! Every bit of it is so true.

2/18/2009 11:09:44 AM #

Mary

-J

When I was in Miami, we used to have all of those types at my gym.  Now where I work out, we don't have as many of them it seems.  

I think I'm generally a loner in the gym, but I often had more fun working out with my friends in undergrad and law school.  It pushed me to work out more.

2/18/2009 11:09:44 AM #

-J

Sass

Even though i do work out at FIT because it's a stone's throw from my house - i'm definately a LONER as well. In/Out/ work out with IPOD or running into a class and flashing a smile only when necessary at the person in my way as i make a mad dash for the abs machine.   Then sweaty and disgusting i run out of the gym hoping no one will remember the tremendous disaster in black stretch pants i look like when i see them later that night in midtown.  

Sheesh - second thought - when does my contract run out.  Third thought - for the price of gas - it's worth it.  

Cute post.

2/18/2009 11:09:44 AM #

Sass

Chris

I'm the past his prime jock who looks longingly at the things the young beefy guys are hoisting, and frighteningly at the pathetic things the oldsters are hoisting, knowing that one day soon, I too will be hoisting those pathetic things. As a former muscle dude, I look at the young hotties and remember that my earlier gym life was all about heavy iron and hooking up. I loved my body but I loved hooking up more. Working out was a means to an end.

2/18/2009 11:09:44 AM #

Chris

Fefa

I didn't see the one-timer on here.  For that person you saw come in that one time, looked at people fitting all these descriptions doing sweaty sort of weight lifty stair climbey things while being dragged around by a veiny membership director who should have worn bike shorts under his too-short-for-a-man-to-wear-shorts that didn't insure his mouse stayed in the house, while he pointed out all the exercizey things you can do on this and that while boasting of his EXTREME! abilities to to X amount of reps on each, and then never, ever, ever came back because oh.my.god. she could not take that much that early in the day and instead resigned to sticking with morning Starbucks and being 'cuddly'.

2/18/2009 11:09:44 AM #

Fefa

Kiki

If I ever WENT to the gym, I might know what you're talking about. Smile

2/18/2009 11:09:44 AM #

Kiki

Sweet Reagan

ok, i heard fit is full of homosexual men. not that there's anything wrong with that. in fact, they are usually a lot more appealing to look at. but then again, my boss works out there and i know he's not homosexual. hence, another reason not to believe everything you hear.

i digress. i'd have to say, i'm a loner. before i even walk through the door, i've got my ipod blaring through my earphones so as to ensure that if anyone does talk to me and tries to confront me about it later, i can just apologize and explain said truth.

when i go to the gym, i go to work out and i definitely look the part (you wouldn't recognize me, i hope). i don't really make it a habit to talk to random people unless they are introduced to me by a friend. the gym is no different, except that i look worse than i would in an acceptable  social setting where i would be somewhat more open to a random introduction but only if a friend was within eyesight to save me if i gave her the please-help-me-get-away-from-this-weirdo look (RIGHT SASS?!).

i'm too lazy to post on my own blog, so i thought i'd leave you with a long drawn-out comment. ;)

2/18/2009 11:09:44 AM #

Sweet Reagan

Chris Cope

I'm either The Loner, or Guy Who Works Out At Home Because He Hates The Gym.

2/18/2009 11:09:44 AM #

Chris Cope

Salacious Samosa

I second that, definatley a Loner... But sometimes I say Hi to regulars...

Plus, all the men who come to the gym are gay or married... so I am not as intimidated that they're checking me out.

Lovies,
S

2/18/2009 11:09:44 AM #

Salacious Samosa

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